An Alzheimer’s Caregiver Martyr - Are You One of These?
Do you refuse to let siblings and others care for your parent or spouse because you think there will be negative effects?
Do you complain about the stress and strain of caring for an Alzheimer’s family member, yet won’t look into respite care and continually find reasons why it won’t work?
In other words…Are You a Caregiver Martyr?
You may not be aware that you are. You may think only you can care for this person. Yes, they may complain if you change their routine, if you aren’t at their “beck and call” or leave them with someone else for awhile.
However, take stock of the situation and realize the change may be good for both of you.
Consider whether you really have to do everything yourself (sometimes there is no choice or very little alternative) or whether this gives you an opportunity for people to feel sorry for you.
So….ask for help. Seek ways to make the caregiving easier for you…for your sake and for the patient’s sake.
(c)2008 Mary Emma Allen
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